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What to Say When Your Kid Asks 'Where Babies Come From'

"In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on."

-Robert Frost

Morning Mama! Well well, look who made it to Friday without selling their kiddos on Etsy! 😜 Get ready to tackle today's landmines—like explaining the birds and the bees to your ever-curious tot. Good times!

Today’s Mommy scoop:

  • 'Where Do Babies Come From?'—Let’s talk.

  • Toothpaste: Fixes teeth and tables

  • Muffins: Breakfast or dessert? You decide.

  • Your next side hustle: Tissue holders

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Answering the 'Where Do Babies Come From?' Question

Does your kid ever ask, "Where do babies come from?" and you just freeze?

Don't worry, I’ve got the scoop on how to handle this big question easily!

Just Give the Basic Facts

First up, the question is scarier for us than for our young curiosity machines.

Dr. Amanda Gummer, child psychologist, advises that young kids typically want a simple, straightforward answer. No need to get all scientific.

  • Say something like, "When mom and dad love each other, they make a special cell that grows into a baby." That should do it!

Use Real Names for Body Parts

Jillian Amodio, founder of Moms For Mental Health, insists on using the actual names for body parts from infancy.

You don’t want little Timmy going around saying he came from a "magic fairy pouch," do you?

  • Start using actual names for body parts from when your child is a baby.

Add More Details as Kids Grow

As your kiddo enters school age, you can spill a little more of the "birds and the bees" tea.

Dr. Christopher Kearney from UNLV suggests layering on some more biological detail.

  • As your kid gets older, you can give more details.

Teen Talk: Be Open

  • When they hit their teen years, it's time for an honest chat about sex.

  • Being open and clear helps teens make smart choices.

Knowledge isn’t just power; it's the armor your teens need in navigating their hormonal battlefield.

For Adopted Kids

For adopted kids, the basics still apply. The only twist?

Dr. Kearney suggests explaining that birth parents and adoptive parents play unique, important roles in their life story.

The Sibling Assist 👧👦

Got an older child who's been through the talk?

Sometimes, siblings explaining to siblings is less intimidating and more relatable.

Just be sure to check in to correct any "creative" additions!

Final Thoughts

Handling the "Where do babies come from?" question doesn't have to be tricky. Stick to these points:

  • Keep it simple.

  • Use real names for body parts.

  • Add details as your kid grows.

  • For teens, be open about sex.

Remember, you've got this, mamas! If you can handle temper tantrums and playdates, you can definitely handle this question! 👶

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Mom’s Menu

Peanut Power: Morning Muffins 🥜🧁

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Get ready to whip up some scrumptious, protein-packed Peanut Butter Muffins, versatile and kid-approved.

These little wonders can cater to the pickiest of eaters and the busiest of mornings.

Ingredients📝

  • 1¼ Cup Whole Wheat Flour: For a healthier, fiber-filled base.

  • ⅓ Cup Sugar (or Maple Syrup): Just enough for that sweet touch.

  • 1 Tsp Baking Powder & ¼ Tsp Baking Soda: For a good ol' rise.

  • 1 Cup Smooth Peanut Butter: The star of the show!

  • 1¼ Cup Milk: Whole or non-dairy, whatever floats your boat.

  • ¼ Cup Applesauce: For a dash of fruity flavor and moist texture.

  • 2 Eggs: To hold everything together.

  • 2 Tsp Pure Vanilla Extract: Enhances all those yummy flavors.

  • Optional Add-ins: 1 cup Chocolate Chips, 2 cups Finely Diced Strawberries, 2 cups Blueberries, or 2 cups Diced Banana.

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Instructions👩‍🍳

  1. Preheat your oven to 375 degrees F, and grease up a 12-cup standard muffin pan.

  2. In one bowl, stir together the flour, sugar (or syrup), baking powder, and baking soda.

  3. In another bowl, mix the peanut butter, milk, applesauce, eggs, and vanilla.

  4. Merge the two worlds together by gently stirring the flour mixture into the peanut butter mixture. Voila, you have a uniform batter!

  5. Add in your favorite optional ingredients and stir gently.

  6. Distribute the batter equally into your prepped muffin tin.

  7. Bake for 14-16 minutes, or until golden-brownish on the edges.

  8. Take them out, let them cool and serve at will!

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Note📌

  • You can store these beauties in an airtight container at room temperature for up to 3 days or in the fridge for up to 5 days.

  • Need to stock up? Freeze them in a freezer bag for up to 3 months. Thaw at room temperature or give them a quick 15-second zap in the microwave.

  • You can also customize this recipe to suit gluten-free, egg-free, or nut-free diets.

Hope this brings a little joy and ease to your morning routines, mamas.

Enjoy the muffin madness! 🌟🥳

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Daily DIY (Mom Side Hustle)

Easy-to-Make Tissue Holders (Make and Sell)

Put those sewing skills to good use and transform fabric scraps into cute and functional pocket tissue holders.

These could make for a practical yet charming item to sell at craft fairs or on your online store.

The tutorial is here.

Mom’s Choice

This dispenser is a game-changer for moms on the go.

It simplifies the process of feeding your baby by allowing you to carry pre-measured formula in a compact, easy-to-use dispenser.

It's one of my favorites because it eliminates the need to carry around bulky formula containers, making outings with your baby a lot easier. 😄

  • Practicality: This dispenser is a convenient solution for carrying pre-measured formula on the go.

  • Ease of Use: The dispenser is easy to use and the opening is perfectly sized for pouring formula into a baby bottle.

  • Compact: The compact design makes it a perfect addition to your diaper bag.

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At what age should a child be able to dress themselves? (Answer below)

A) By 2 years

B) By 3 years

C) By 4 years

D) By 5 years

E) When they start giving you fashion advice

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