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The Dangers of Helicopter Parenting

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"When you are looking at your mother, you are looking at the purest love you will ever know."

- Charley Benetto

Good Morning Mama! Welp, blink twice and it’s Monday. Ready to take on the week with the same determination your toddler uses to avoid naptime?

Today’s Mommy scoop:

  • Helicopter Parenting: Hovering too much?

  • The Marshmallow Ice Pack hack.

  • Scrumptious Banana Egg Muffins

  • A fun DIY wallpaper project.

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Mom’s Field Guide

The Unraveled Truths of Helicopter Parenting

Ever heard of 'Helicopter Parents'? They're the moms and dads who are always there for their kids—like, always there.

But is being super-involved actually a good thing, or is it a recipe for future trouble?

What’s Up With Hovering Parents? 

Helicopter parents are those who are always around their kids, like a helicopter over a city.

They do everything for their kids, from playing with them all the time when they're little, to picking their friends when they're older, or even calling their teachers about bad grades when they're in high school.

It sounds like they’re just super-caring, right? 

Well, the problem is that they may care too much, to the point where kids can't do anything on their own.

Why Do Parents Turn Into Helicopters? 

Parents might start hovering because they’re afraid of bad things happening to their kids, like not making the team or failing an exam.

Or, they might feel stressed about the world and want to protect their kids.

Some parents hover because they didn’t feel loved when they were kids and they don’t want their own kids to feel the same.

Or they see other parents being super-involved and think they should do the same.

The thing is, parents are usually trying to do their best, but sometimes it can be too much.

What’s the Problem With Hovering? 

When parents hover too much, kids might start to think they can't do anything by themselves.

This can make them less confident and bad at dealing with problems.

They might also get more worried and think that they should always get what they want.

Even learning basic stuff like tying shoes or doing laundry may be skipped, because their parents always do it for them.

So, helicopter parenting can actually make it harder for kids to grow up and be independent.

“If we stop solving our kid's problems, we can help them become confident and able to deal with life.”

- Deborah Gilboa, M.D.

How To Stop Being a Helicopter Parent 

If you're a bit of a helicopter parent, don't worry—you can change!

Let your kids deal with problems and let them feel upset sometimes. Let them do stuff that they can do by themselves.

It might be hard to watch, but they'll learn and become more confident.

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Mom Hack

Make a marshmallow ice pack

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Mom Hack

Little ones inevitably need an ice pack now and then.

Here's a fun twist - a marshmallow ice pack!

It's softer, moldable, and somehow less scary.

Just fill a ziplock with marshmallows, pop it in the freezer, and voila! An ice pack that's kid-friendly. 😄 

Mom’s Menu

Banana Egg Muffins

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We've got the perfect treat for you today - Banana Egg Muffins.

These little gems are incredibly simple to make, boasting only three ingredients, yet offer a nutritional powerhouse that’s as tasty as it is healthy.

This recipe is your new secret weapon.

Why? It's a piece of cake...or should we say, a piece of muffin!

Let's dive in.

Ingredients

  • 2 ripe Bananas

  • 4 Eggs

  • 1 cup of Raspberries or Blueberries

  • A little Coconut Oil / Butter for greasing

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Let's Get Baking

  1. Preheat the oven: Kick things off by preheating your oven to 190°C (375°F). Give your mini muffin tray a good grease with some coconut oil or butter.

  2. Mash the Bananas: Mash those ripe bananas in a large mixing bowl. Leave some little lumps - they add a nice bite to the final product.

  3. Combine and Whisk: Now, add the eggs to your mashed bananas and mix until fully combined.

  4. Berry Time: Place 2-3 berries in the bottom of each mini muffin hole. Feel free to use fresh or frozen berries. If your berries are larger, like strawberries, just chop 'em up first.

  5. Add Egg Mixture: Pour the banana-egg mixture over the berries, filling each muffin hole to just below the top. They will rise a bit while cooking, but don't worry, they settle down once out of the oven.

  6. Bake: Pop the muffin tray in your preheated oven and bake for about 15 minutes, or until the eggs are set.

  7. Cool and Remove: Let them cool for a couple of minutes then carefully remove each muffin with a knife. Voila! You've got a batch of healthy, delicious muffins.

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Wrap-up

There you have it, these banana-egg muffins are practically begging to be your new go-to breakfast or snack.

And remember, these aren't your traditional "muffins", they are more like a sweet omelette.

So go forth and conquer the kitchen, one 3-ingredient muffin at a time!

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Daily DIY (Mom Edition)

Wallpaper a Wall

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Want to spruce up a room?

Wallpaper brings life to your walls in ways that paint might not.

Whether it's texture, color, or patterns you want, wallpaper can deliver.

Remember to measure the area of your wall and subtract space for doors or windows.

If the wallpaper is patterned, consider getting an extra roll or two for consistency.

The tutorial is here.

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Parenting Quiz

How many words should a two-year-old typically know? (Answer below)

A) 20-50

B) 50-100

C) 100-200

D) 200-300

E) All the lyrics to "Baby Shark"

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Answer

D) 200-300

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