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7 Common Discipline Mistakes Parents Often Make

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Morning Mommy! It's Wednesday, also known as "Why-is-the-week-so-long?" Day. We've got a little bit of this and a little bit of that, just to keep you second-guessing your parenting skills.

Today’s Mommy scoop:

  • Discipline mistakes you're definitely not making 🙄

  • Dishwasher cleans toys and flip-flops?

  • Healthy Chilli Cheese Fries? Yes, please!

  • Animal Bookmarks: DIY

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Mom’s Field Guide

7 Common Discipline Mistakes By Parents

Let's be real: disciplining kids is a game of trial, error, and a pinch of comedy gold.

From preaching "don'ts" to expecting kid-size adult behavior, here's the lowdown on seven classic discipline fails—and how to fix 'em!

Don't Be a Negative Nancy

Raise your hand if you've said, "Don't hit your sister!" at least a dozen times today. Yeah, me too.

But Dr. Borba advises us to flip the script. Instead of saying what NOT to do, try guiding them toward what TO do.

Save the “No!” for a fork-meets-electrical-socket kind of moment.

Sky-High Expectations

Why doesn't your toddler understand that church isn't a concert venue?

Dr. Sonna reminds us that kids are still learning the social game.

So let's switch from "shushing" to teaching, 'cause kids are naturally the best copycats in town!

Monkey See, Monkey Do

You curse at the guy who cut you off, then wonder why your kiddo throws a tantrum.

Behavior boomerangs, folks. Time to apologize and model the kind of adulting we want our minis to emulate.

Intervention Overload

Ever been the drill sergeant who intervenes every time your kids are, well, just being kids?

Chill, mama! Unless it's a safety issue, let 'em be. They’ll tire themselves out—promise!

Talk is Cheap

Saying, "Turn off the TV" a gazillion times? They know you're bluffing.

Set clear rules and stick to 'em. No more running those "mom says" yellow lights!

Time-Out Timeout

So you sent your little Hulk to their room and now they're even madder.

Dr. Sonna suggests a "time-in." Sit with them, cuddle, and discuss what went haywire.

One Size Doesn't Fit All

Ever wonder why your go-to discipline tactic works on one kid but not the other?

Each mini-me is a unique little human, so tweak those strategies to fit the child!

Takeaway

Bottom line, mastering discipline is like perfecting a mom-bun: messy, unpredictable, but oh-so-necessary.

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So laugh off the fails, celebrate the wins, and remember, you’re not alone in this wild parenting rodeo!

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Mom's Mic: This Week’s Poll

How do you manage screen time for your kids?

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Poll Results From 8/28

How do you manage screen time for your kids?

🟨⬜️⬜️⬜️⬜️⬜️ Strict schedule (12%)

🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩 Limited hours per day (63%)

🟨🟨⬜️⬜️⬜️⬜️ No restrictions (25%)

⬜️⬜️⬜️⬜️⬜️⬜️ Based on behavior and homework completion (0%)

Mom Hack

Wash plastic toys and flip-flops in the dishwasher

Mom Hack

Cleaning toys and flip-flops one by one is a thing of the past!

Throw them all in the dishwasher for an easy clean and sanitize session.

Mom’s Menu

Healthy Chilli Cheese Fries 🧀🍟

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Remember those sinfully delicious chilli cheese fries from your younger days?

Well, how about a version your kiddos will absolutely love - and you'll approve of too?

📝 Ingredients

  • 1 kg / 2lb Sweet Potatoes

  • 2 tablespoon Olive Oil

  • 1 teaspoon Smoked paprika (optional)

  • 2 cups Cooked Chilli

  • 1 cup Guacamole

  • ¼ cup Grated cheese (or as needed)

👩‍🍳 Instructions

  1. Preheat your oven to 200 C / 400 F.

  2. Wash and peel those sweet potatoes.

  3. Slice 'em into ¼ inch thick fries.

  4. In a large bowl, mix the sweet potato fries with the oil and smoked paprika until they're fully coated.

  5. Place your sweet potato fries in a single layer on a baking tray.

  6. Bake 'em until tender and browned (approx. 15-20 mins), turning occasionally.

  7. Finally, portion out the fries and top with some chilli, a sprinkle of cheese and a dollop of guacamole.

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📌 Note

Remember, your cooking time doesn't include making the chilli and guacamole. I’ve linked those recipes from healthylittlefoodies for further info.

So there you have it, my friend!

Guilt-free, veggie-packed chilli cheese fries - they're a doddle to make and are sure to disappear faster than your toddler's favorite toy.

🙌🥳 Happy cooking mama!

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Daily DIY

Animal Bookmarks

Crafting adorable animal bookmarks can provide a fun and functional project for your little ones.

The tutorial is here.

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Parenting Quiz

When should a child be able to catch a small ball using both hands? (Answer below)

A) By 2 years

B) By 3 years

C) By 4 years

D) By 5 years

E) When they sign themselves up for baseball

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Answer

B) By 3 years

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